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Part II. Empty Restaurant Tables ~ Spartans! Battle Stations!!!

   

Spartans! Battle Stations!!!   Part II.   Restaurant Warriors 
The response to our last blog was almost frightening, for me at least!  The number of views in the last two days reached... 1058!   

Restaurants are preparing an all out offensive, to hold onto every customer that walks in the door.  Some say it feels like there is some sort of WAR on small businesses.  Entrepreneurs are scrambling to work with what they’ve got.  Every expenditure is being scrutinized, and every dime is being leveraged with creative innovation.  We are hopeful this information will help! 

Excerpts of comments from Part I of Empty Restaurant Tables... 

Chef David Buchanan  Chefs-resources.com   "Brutally hard times for restaurant owners. And they are making excruciating decisions… “How do I cut costs without losing my customers?” “What can they do to avoid bankruptcy?” “How do I attract customers when they have less discretionary income?” And so on, with no easy answers. I think that to focus on quality food and service is the best bet. 

Caterina Borg:   “I too, see businesses around me not able to pay their rent, make payroll or meet their monthly unemployment insurance payments for their employees, which by the way, has tripled in the State of Maryland in the past year. My advice echoes what you suggested.”

Chef Rick Whorf:  “This is over simplifying but this is what I did.  I wrote a new menu at a 20% food cost vs. the 30% target that was running and never hitting the mark due to enormous waste, I used smaller portions of higher quality ingredients (Less is more), used less expensive ingredients as sides and accompaniments, eliminated the high dollar pre-made frozen crap and started actually cooking.  Then slashed menu prices listing the least expensive first to make it attractive to the pocket book.  After 1 month of our new menu, no advertising except the menu in our window, I'm glad to announce  that average daily sales are up by 61%!  Total July food and supplies cost is just 14%, labor is way down but doesn’t count.  I’m working really cheap.  Keep the downer out of the mess is also a good idea, never under estimate the power of the power of positive mental attitude!  Everyone can feel negativity.  Offer good food and service at a good fair price, present upbeat positive attitude with guests AND staff.”  ...http://rickwhorf.posterous.com/  

Spartan Battle Plan vs Business Plan  (more specific details in Part III. of our next blog)
Success begins and ends with a strategy, in this case a battle plan.  This plan differs from your business plan.  Think of it more as a simplified 2 pager.  Purpose being, to stop the immediate financial, emotional and visible hemorrhaging from your business or job.   Such a plan is best created collaboratively between everyone involved.    That means from the ground up, not the top down! The most important thing to keep forefront in this tumultuous economy, is to serve the paying customer the way THEY wish and deserve to be served.   This may require some redirection of both your current mindset and protocol.
First things first:

~  Cut back on your labor, material and supplies till it screams.   Now, make it scream some more!  

~  Never forfeit higher quality products in lieu of cheaper products!!!   Customers are not stupid! 

    Consider smaller but tastier portions as Chef Rick Whorf suggests. (see above)  Be more

    creative without sacrificing the best ingredients.

~  Attempt to renegotiate terms (lower rents) with landlords.  

~  Renegotiate those blood sucking service charges with your provider on guest credit cards being run

    through your register.    Shop! Shop! Shop! for better prices.  

~  Extend vendor payment terms to 60, 90 or even 120-140 days.  Yes, it is possible and done by many

    as standard practice.  Leverage with “reason” when dealing with a vendor.

~  Request a vendor discount for COD delivery orders.

~  Request a discount for 30 day prompt payments.  Don’t laugh, it works!

~  Purchase in bulk whenever possible, especially disposables and anything made of paper.

~  Cross-train your crew.

~  Train, train and train your front of house (FOH) crew relentlessly!  Yet, no matter how clever or

    creative restaurants become, one important factor continues to escape many of them.  Retraining,

    retrenching and revitalizing “the best of the best” food servers, is the only way to retain customer

    loyalty. I’ve said it before, and I’ll say it again, “No matter how superb your food may be, it is

    all for naught, if the service stinks, your customer loyalty shrinks!”

~  Put off “until further notice” employee performance reviews.  If you're going to raise their wages,

    speak to your employees on a one to one basis and tell them HOW each of them needs to be more

    productive. Employee reviews are one of the worst, most destructive and universally despised shams

    in the workplace. They are fraudulent in not truly measuring employee performance, and in causing

    unnecessary emotional havoc on their psyche in the middle of an epic economic meltdown. 

~  Insurance... practically impossible, but what the heck!  It’s only one more phone call.  When you

    call your agent, ask him to listen, while you play “Only The Lonely.”  Tell him what it means. It will

    help put him in a more benevolent mood. If it’s no dice on his part... shop around for better!  Vendors

    are supposed to be your partners in business. 

~  Equipment Maintenance Agreements:  Renegotiate for lower pricing in return for extended months.  

    Longer but cheaper.

~  Invite more vendors to competitively bid for your business needs on all fronts.  Remember it’s a

    buyer’s market, not a seller’s!

~  Shop at local farmers/markets.  Fresh produce and honey!  They will bend over backwards for your

    business and will enjoy teaching you, as well as your staff, about their products.  I caveat that you

    validate delivery dependability.

~  Hugged your neighbor lately?  Form a Band of Brothers cooperative with your neighborhood

    eateries. Deliveries made on the same street, saves time, fuel and money.  If you coordinate orders

    from the same vendors you are apt to have more leverage with pricing. One good turn deserves

    another. 

~  Ramp up your “Take Out” service... An article written by Kare Anderson / May 5th, 2009, is an exceptional example of creative innovation, entitled “Coddle and Keep Customers – Even in a Cold Economy". Quote: "Poggio opens onto the main street of my village-by-the-bay, Sausalito. It doesn’t serve breakfast. Recently this upscale restaurant started offering fresh-baked Italian pastries and coffee as a drive-by service for the morning commuters heading into S.F. With famously great food, a prominent location and just one new, part-time “running waiter” the restaurant has gained a new profit stream. Plus the activity has drawn more stay-at-homes to drop by for a takeout breakfast." Poggio, is but one glistenine example of creative innovation.”

Don't allow yourself to be seduced into spending  money that you don't have... by ANYONE!

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Battle Plan Specifics ~ Part III. in our next blog

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Part I. Empty Restaurant Tables are singing... "Only The Lonely"

Special Foodie Bonus Feature: “How To Organize Recipes” (noted at the end of this blog)

 

Part I.  Restaurant Warriors
Today I took a drive down the main strip and counted seventeen restaurant/cafe foodery closings within the last five weeks.  My feelings ranged from anger to rage, then anger again.  Names like Orwell, Machiavelli, Rand, and especially Schumpeter (pronounced SHOOM-pay-ter) toyed with my consciousness.  Fearful that my brain would sizzle like a Bromo, I banished them.  I don’t want to ghettoize this post, with even a hint of politics.  Even though it hangs over us, like a dimly lit rusty chandelier amidst an earthquake of decisions waiting to be made, like yesterday.   We all know the score.  The shop keeper who is niggling over how to make payroll.  The restaurateur who can’t shrink the 80 tables down to 40, and the employee who's hanging on by a thread.  

 So what’s this post really about?  It’s about “changing to meet the challenges.”  It’s about us foodies, who eat, drink, prepare, buy, sell, and work with food.  It’s about not using a mallet to pulverize a business or an employee, that is obviously going through some hard times.  It’s about being a bit more sparing, with the extra hot chili peppered criticism.  I’m asking us to be more of a compassionate conscious observer rather than an unconscionable deserver.  What it boils down to is curbing the “I wanna, wanna’s” be they employers, guests, or employees who regretfully may have larceny in their hearts.  Or bullying someone you know can’t fight back, without losing their job. The answer, is to say, what you have to say, with compassion!  It legitimizes everything and turns the receiver of your complaint, into your advocate.

 In my vain attempt to help purge the toxic effects of these economic doldrums, I decided to convert the doldrums into possible opportunities for our audience and try to make it entertaining at the same time.   Something to redirect the negativity swirling around us that’s become a narcotic. This post may not resolve anything.  If it sets you to thinking about taking action or inspires you.  Or helps you inspire someone else, then it has accomplished its purpose.   Within this mayhem we may even discover constructive alternatives, while helping each other to get through this.  

 I’ve divided this post into 4 (hopefully entertaining) segments: Song time (one time whinge allowed). I’ve taken the liberty of playfully dubbing the song, “Only The Lonely” as the anthem for empty restaurant tables everywhere!  Play time (playful positive attitude), Story time (inspirational), and finally, let’s show everyone how we entrepreneurs and employees collaborate in kicking some creative small-business butt.   It’s impossible for me to hit all the high notes.  Must reserve some things for our book!  By the way it’s finally finished ... just wrapping things up!

 As of this writing, I imagine us as  "Restaurant Warriors!!! "  We are not going to take this economic downturn lying down.  In the immortal words of Winston Churchill, “Never! Never! Never give up!”

 

Song Time: Let’s kick it off with Roy Orbison’s song, “Only The Lonely.” Dedicated to empty restaurant tables wherever they may be silently sitting idle.  We shall make light of it in a constructive way!

Play Time: You know the game every time you see a VW drive by, you punch a friend.  Now, every time we pass a new food business that has closed, we punch a friend.  Heads up everyone!!!  This posting is to signify, there is a new sheriff in town (or rather in your kitchen or cafe).  Take heart...  IT’S A WHOLE NEW GAME!!!  (best part is at the end of this video)
 

Story Time:  Close friend and confidant, Caterina Borg had this to say:  “When I think of giving up the struggle, I think of the story about the little mouse who was snooping around the kitchen and fell into a pot of heavy cream...he tried and tried to get out...his little feet were going a mile a minute ... and when he was ready to give up, something magical happened...the cream turned to whipped cream and it helped him to climb out of the pot...so, I spend my days trying to whip my cream!! LOL”   


Foodie Lovers whom we adore.  Here is a wonderful gift for all of you, compliments

* Bonus Feature “How To Organize Recipes” by Chef David Buchanan

Culinary Information for Professional Chefs, Foodies and Culinarians.  Organizing your recipes on your computer can be a little daunting but ultimately is well worth the time to do.  Once you have set-up yourrecipe organizational system it becomes very easy to both save and to find recipes.  I used to labor over "under what category should I save this recipe so I can find it later?  Should I save it under the entrée name or the sauce name?"   Now I do both.  That way when I go to my Halibut recipes, I can see what sauces I have specifically paired with Halibut in the past.  Or I can go to my Beurre Blanc sauce file and see all my Beurre Blancs to pick one for the Halibut, which I used for a different application but may not have used for Halibut yet. 

Most of my recipes are in an Excel format, but some are in Word and a few are even html web pages I have saved to a folder.  I prefer Excel because it is easy to scale a recipe to feed 20 people or 2000.  And Excel also allows me to put costing right into the recipe format to calculate my food cost % and appropriate sales price.

 
* Extra-extra Bonus Feature:  "Wagyu Beef" created byAdam with Truffle Shuffle
   and The Ardent Epicure with descriptions and photos.  
* Special Congratulations to Renee Restivo, New York and Noto, Sicily. 
 Featured in the New York Times Letter: Italy’s Home Cooks   Published: April 25, 2010  To the Editor: Regarding Mangia, Mangia! (April 11): So good to see Italy’s home cooks — mostly women behind the scenes in Italy’s homes — finally getting the recognition they deserve! In a world where five-star chefs and celebrity chefs often get most of the attention, this is a refreshing article.  I have worked very hard over the past decade to create Sicilian home cooking programs — soulofsicily.com — in Noto (in the province of Siracusa) where I live for part of the year. Mammas and nonnas have so much tradition to share, and we must taste it and learn from it before it disappears.  Grazie mille for this article. Bravo!  Renee Restivo New York and Noto, Sicily   Facebook Link: http://www.facebook.com/Reneerestivo

 

* A Special Thank You: On July 10th, we received a personal email from a member of the NYT’s telling us that they were a new fan on our website and they were sending it around to other “cronies and near-cronies.”  It was an euphoric email!!! We are so grateful to everyone!  Thank you again for your congratulations! 

Please continue writing as to what ails you, along with your suggestions.   Hope to be able to get back to visiting your blogs and commenting as soon as is possible.  I really miss it!
We personally respond to all of our emails!
Cheers,  Penelope

Battle Stations Part II in our next blog
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Food Servers Infidel Thumb

The server has just finished uncapping a spectacular sight, a renaissance feast.  The eyes of the beholder take a ravenous hold of the magnificent platter of food artisanship.   Ever so slightly, the left cheek of the guest begins to quiver.  His eyes bulge with fascination.  The corners of his mouth moisten.  The upper lip abdicates in anticipation, as the lower lip submerges deep, like a sinking ship into the chin.  His entire body erupts with silent volcanic spasms of gastronomic ecstasy.  The tongue peeks wearily out of the mouth, witlessly in search of its next entertainment, then is caught by an unbridled tidal wave of hard, sucking undertows as it tries to resist against the mighty bursting dam of saliva that gushes forth.  The pressure forces the mouth to succumb and swallows hard.   

And then... the eyes behold treachery... they see it!  

A vulgar intruder has crashed onto the plate.  What the hell is the servers thumb doing in my food?  The nubby, greasy thumb is eclipsed by an ever slight black half moon rim that magnifies the servers thumb nail.  The dastardly deed is done.  The moment is shattered into a gazillion crystal pieces, impossible to mend, and never able to hold the moment again.  The thumb has infiltrated the plate.  Like a wild infidel, it has contaminated the purity of the succulent meal and vanquished its innocence.  It is nothing more than mutton now.  The euphoria has been snuffed out to oblivion.  

The mind is buzzing, swishing back and forth, attempting to bulldoze the recollection of the thumb’s image, but the mind won’t have it.  It quickly tries to switch tracks like an Amtrak bullet train.  Then suddenly, his wife jars him back to reality.  “What’s the matter?  Don’t you like it.  Just look at that beautiful plate!  I’ll have it, if you don’t want it.”    He shrugs like a castrated bull and replies, “No, everything is fine.  I guess it’s all right.” 

His brain feels like an mellon being mashed in a vice.  He tries to remember if his waiter was the one who was chewing his nails when they walked in to be seated.  He can’t recall - they all look alike.   As he exhales deeply, it takes him a moment to regain his composure, then pauses to think some more.  

Should I or shouldn’t I say something?  

Damn it! Shouldn’t these jokers know better?  

Damn!  I’ve heard the horror stories of what goes on back in the kitchen when you complain and send back your food.  

Damn!  Why don’t these guys pay attention to this stuff?

OK! What Just Happened?

Your gratutity may be burnt toast!  

For the guest, that exact moment can neither be retracted nor recreated.  It’s final.  The only thing you can do is not commit this grievous err.  It’s avoidable.  And yes, it may take some practice, but it it avoidable!   

Be assured, it's a real turn-off to see a stranger's finger in your food, but far worse is the spread of bacteria from your hands.  Most servers clear dirty dishes and cutlery from their tables, grabbing soiled glasses by the tops with their fingers, which is another reason why you should never handle a glass by the rim for a guest, or put your hands near your mouth.

(c) 2010 ptsaldari.posterous.com : PTsaldari Group Inc. | The Art of Serving Well | Serve Me Well Inc. All rights reserved. This article originally appeared on ptsaldari.posterous.com blog authored by PTsaldari.  This article may be shared and reprinted as long as this entire copyright message accompanies it. Email: ptsaldari@gmail.com

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When Service is Spelled Stupid ~ by Randy Caparoso

(trials & tribulations of restaurant wine professionals in other restaurants)


When the nose knows, when the palate detects betrayal and the heart quickens...  a  Renaissance man like Randy Caparoso knows when the bottle is corked.  A respected sommelier, restaurateur, wine judge, and journalist.   I’m especially pleased to have his permission in featuring an article he wrote about the service he received.   It swirls nicely with our blog purpose.

I have the pleasure of sharing...   When Service is Spelled Stupid

We knew things would get rough early in 2009 when we read about the poor slobs on Wall Street taking 50% cuts in their million dollar bonuses. Which meant the working stiffs on Main Street making $50 to $150 grand a year – no matter how you slice it, the real bread and butter of our industry – would be the ones to actually eat it.

Here at Sommelier Journal, it made sense for us to weave the old fashioned concept of service into our 2009 editorial calendar. Why? Because in times of recession, improving service is not just the most effective way of differentiating ourselves from competition, it is also the cheapest: all it takes is an attitude adjustment.

Adjusting attitude, however, is also the hard part. In the fall of 2009, a piece called 100 Things Restaurant Staffers Should Never Do blogged in the New York Times elicited some 10,000 heart-felt consumer responses? (also featured on our blog  of 27 Dec 09, http://ptsaldari.posterous.com/burnt-toast-for-anyone-who-serves-even-water)   For many restaurants, the response was: duck soup. Sure, our staffs know they aren’t supposed to stack plates at the table, and run over guests as they go charging through the room. We teach that everyday. Why, then, are the details so hard to execute, even in our most successful restaurants? It’s that attitude thing; a culture, basically, of not giving a damn.

True story: last summer I found myself with a free night in Portland, and so I researched the hottest new restaurants. I find one, and call for the only opening (5 PM reservations at the chef’s counter). Shown to my stool, I peruse the wine list and find a delicious sounding red Burgundy for a relatively good price of $80. I’m practically clapping with anticipation as the waiter presents, opens and pours, but horror of horrors… the bottle is corked!

A few minutes after politely sending back the bottle, I start to feel the fear and trepidation I’m sure every guest must experience when a managerial looking person approaches, wine list in hand. She’s looks nice, the way Glenn Close did in the beginning of That Movie, and she regrets to inform: “Sir, we’ll need to ask you to order a different wine because we tasted the bottle you sent back, and we feel that there’s nothing wrong with it.”

Of course, this has happened to me before. With my slack jaw, brown skin and bad hair, I know I look more like a trouble maker than a wine "expert" to restaurant managers. But unlike 99% of restaurant managers, I can tell a corked wine from a side of a barn... and so, overcoming my non-confrontational instincts, I flashed my business cards, explained who I am and what I do for a living, and demanded that second bottle: I really, really wanted to enjoy that $80 bottle of Burgundy.

“O-kaay,” comes the managerial person’s reply, and cutting to a fairly happy ending: the second bottle turns out to be perfectly delicious (full of wild cherry and dancing girls tossing fresh flowers). I poured a generous portion for the manager to taste in the back, and she came back a few minutes later to say, “yes, you were right!” Although not with (duly noted) an actual apology, much less something in exchange for all my trouble, nor for giving up nearly a fifth of my bottle to magnanimously make a point (I can dream can't I?).

Point being: yes, we should teach our managers and staffs what a corked wine is, and maybe some humility and grace as well; but that’s not the issue. We should be teaching ourselves, by looking at the real source of those nasty attitudes seeping through our windows and damaging our guests’ psyches. Don’t look at the bad hats you may have mistakenly hired – look at your policies, or the hurdles you may have set up in your own standards and procedures that discourage your staff from providing the kind of caring, stress-free environment every guest undoubtedly prefers.

A longtime chef/friend recently opened a place of his own in Denver: his first, and a well capitalized labor of love; his dishes, exquisite meditations on fifteen years of culinary travels, from Hong Kong to New York. Within a month, the restaurant was creamed in the local major daily. The offense? One guest (unfortunately, the anonymous critic) who had walked in and asked the bartender for change to feed the parking meter: he was given the thumb, and told to go next door for his change.

Another true tale of woe: across the street from that same friend’s place, a charming sidewalk French brasserie, where I recently brought a party of five. First-thing, I order $265 worth of wine; including two bottles of $65 grand cru Beaujolais. Our waiter brings smallish, tulip shaped wine glasses to the table for our Beaujolais, prompting me to politely request large Burgundy glasses instead.

I am told: “I’m sorry, sir, but our Burgundy glasses are reserved only for bottles with a minimum price of $75.” Of course, I respond logically: “We just finished a $135 bottle of Champagne, and now we’re drinking two bottles of Beaujolais worth $130… surely, there is room for some common sense here.” Alas, there was none, even after our waiter did us the favor of conferring with his manager on duty. What could we do – walk out as the entrées hit the table? We drank our Beaujolais in those stubby tulips.

Oh, I have been through This Movie, too: five years earlier, in fact, in a tony South Beach restaurant decked out in oversized Buddhas and grass growing on the wall; where a wine professional/friend and I were thrown out after ordering a $150 Champagne, and about the same sum in multiple appetizers. Our crime? We didn’t order entrées, as required by house policy.

It is not so much the stupidity to which guests are subjected on a daily basis, but the culture that invariably grows out of this approach: asking our guests not what we can do for them, but rather what they can do for us – to help us run our restaurants with more efficiency and cost effectiveness. A little less stress, a lot less bother. This odd reversal of roles is not just in many of our manuals, it is often on our menus (no substitutions… no split dishes!), our wine lists (if you need to ask about any of these wines, you don’t belong…), and our pricing (if you’d like a glass of something not found in every supermarket in the land, that will be $16 please…).

Needless to say, most of us get what we deserve: waiters who place following orders above taking orders sensibly, bartenders with quick-draw thumbs, and managers who assume the worst in guests, judging them wrong long past the point where right or wrong matter.

If here, in 2010, you find yourself still suffering, and wondering when you’ll get yours: maybe it’s time to check yourself, and work harder to redefine what it is you’re calling service.  Posted by Randy Caparoso on March 26, 2010,  (originally published in Sommelier Journal (Dec. 2009) as Bottom Line column called Gotta Serve Somebody:      

About Randy Caparoso:  "I fought against the bottle," as Leonard Cohen wrote, "but I had to do it drunk"... specializing in wine as a restaurateur, retailer, wine judge, journalist, frequent flyer and mental traveler. But to me, wine is a food like a rose is a rose. So why all the fuss? Wine and food matchin g is a lot easier than you might think it is, but it helps to base it on some basic principles, which I've spent a career (30+ years) doing. 
Currently: Bottom Line Editor, Sommelier Journal. Awards: Sante's Wine & Food Professional of the Year (1998); Restaurant Wine's Wine Marketer of the Year (1992 & 1999); Academy of Wine Communications (commendation) for Excellence in Wine Writing and Encouragement of Higher Industry Standards; Electoral College Member, Vintners Hall of Fame at the Culinary Institute of America, Greystone.
Email:  randycaparoso@earthlink.net     http://www.randycaparoso.blogspot.com    http://www.winelistconsulting.blogspot.com
 
An Extra Wine Bonus Feature:   An intriguing photo from 1955 showing the matre'd of Londonderry House, London, checks bottles of fine wines chosen for the `Golden Banquet' talking place.  88 wealthy businessmen paid $250 a head for the privilege of eating shrimp soup, pate de foie gras and chicken breats in aspic.  Among the wines on offer were an 1989 champagne, a 1923 Claret and a 1792 sherry.  $20,000 was raised for charity.  (Photo by Harry Kerr/BIPs/Getty Images) 
Remember your first blog post???  I bet you do.  What I remember most about mine is my burning desire to let people know what the purpose of my work was all about. 

We all know how difficult it is to earn the trust of a strong readership.  I am forever grateful for the more than generous traffic and trust our blog receives.  I wanted to pay it forward  by welcoming a new food blogger into the Blogosphere. I have the pleasure of introducing...

Alisha Randell co creator, along with Adam Dodson (aka Truffle Shuffle) and Grely Taguines (aka Sugar & Spice) are contributors to the dessert posts. Magic of Spice has created The Ardent Epicure, nicely laid out and deployed.  It looks like they all put a lot of hard work into their site.  If you have an extra moment, you may want to stop by and give The Ardent Epicure a tweet.  http://www.theardentepicure.com/

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Mining The Deep Smarts of Chefs-Resources.com

     

How valuable is your time?
How valuable is time to chefs, F&B’s, cooks, caterers or food bloggers?
How important is accuracy in weights and measures? 
Need to have an accurate “yield” number?
How important is vendor information?

Why don’t food servers know more about the food they are serving, its origin, defining features and organic characteristics?  Smart selling is more effective than up-selling. 

There is no excuse for not mining the deep smarts of others who have performed all the work for us. It is information we can depend upon to be precise and delivered with just a few clicks of our mouse.  There isn’t a serious food blogger I know, that doesn’t perform due diligence in researching before posting.

Allow me the pleasure of introducing Chefs-Resources.com  

Where do Chefs go to find the information they require?  Chefs-Resources is a new website geared towards professional chefs and culinary enthusiasts, and it is a solid starting point.  The purpose of the site is to build a culinary resource where chefs can go for all their informational needs regarding culinary, kitchen and restaurant issues.  The site is about information, not recipes. 

Want to know what an acceptable yield is when you break down a whole H&G halibut?  You’ll find it at Chefs-Resources, along with the yields of over 20 other fish.  And the list of fish on the site continues to grow.  Each fish listed includes its own profile page with information important to chefs.  What are alternate names of the fish? When is it available fresh? What is the flavor profile? What is the nutritional information? (Which is converted to a 6 oz. portion size rather than the typical 3.5 oz.)  Each page has an at-a-glance ‘flavor scale’ which lists intensity of flavor, fat content, and texture of the fish. 

Need the flavor profile of an oyster you plan to put on the menu? Over 60 oyster varieties from the Pacific Northwest are listed along with their flavor profile, how they are grown, and where they are grown.  And the East Coast oyster varieties are in the process of being completed. 

Chef David Buchanan has worked in kitchens for 30 years and is the creator of Chefs-Resources.com.  David lives near Bellingham, WA and continues to work in the industry as a Chef.  “The idea of Chefs-Resources.com was born from a desire to have all his information available in one place at all times.  He was constantly looking for information which he had discovered or researched at some point in the past, or which he had either at work or at home, but not both.  For instance, he documented extensive yield factors for prime ribs, but left the information on the computer at his last job.  Chef David researched the various wild salmon runs last season, but that was last year!  Did Coho start running in June or July?  And so on with all kinds of information.  He wanted it all in one place and by putting it on the internet, he was able to access it any time from any computer.  Now he can even access the information on his cell phone!”   Nice thing is, he is sharing it with the rest of us.

You’ll also find links to free downloadable versions of the IMPS Meat Buyer’s Guide for beef, veal, offal, and pork.  All are in separate PDF files.  There is a growing section on Kitchen Management Tools with information on Food Cost Control, free downloadable Prep Sheets, how to calculate Inventory Turns, and more. 

Looking for a culinary dictionary?  You can search several dictionaries.  How about culinary conversions?  You’ll find that there, too.  The site also has a number of training videos on how to break down various whole fish. 

Other unique information includes the volume capacity of various kitchen pans (hotel pans, half pans, etc).  A great help for costing recipes is the dry spice yield conversion chart which shows how many tsp/tbl spoons are in an oz. of over 90 spices. 

The site is still in its infancy and currently has fresh seafood and produce information revolving around the Pacific Northwest, which is where Chef David, resides and works as a Chef.  But the intent and purpose is to eventually have accurate, useful information for chefs in every region of North America.  Another unique aspect of Chefs-Resources is that it is built on a wiki engine (by EditMe.com).  This allows other chefs to add their own knowledge to the existing site.  Adding content can be done either by simply adding a comment, which the administrator can add into the site if it is relevant, or you can register (for free) and gain access to the site’s editorial tools which allow you to add content and create new pages directly into the site. 

My favorite was the section on Half Shell Oyster Varieties:  There is a huge variety of fresh oysters available for chefs to use on their menus today.  Oyster flavor profiles have advanced to the point of being akin to wine tasting. Connoisseurs discuss the complexity of the oyster, the finish, the hints of melon or cucumber.  Need culinary info on Sea Urchins?.  Did you know, that the yield % for whole head/on gutted King Salmon to fillets should be 68% - 70%?  How about... the Mecox Bay Oyster which is a wild oyster with a low salinity and a mild yet crisp flavor.  The Blue Point Oysters were added to the site recently.  It appears that the name used to be "Top Shelf" but has become simply generic to any Long Island harvested oyster.  Have you eaten Martha's Vineyard Oysters ? There is lot's more.

Check out the link for information on oyster cultivation methods and their effects upon oyster flavor profiles.  Or see oyster farming for more detailed information about oyster aquaculture.  Also, see shellfish storage for the best way to hold your shellfish.

Bonus Feature Video Links:    Watch while Chef David, Sous Chef at Blackfish Restaurant, prepares a tasty Stained Glass Salmon served with Radicchio Granny Smith Apple and Fennel Compot" with fresh asparagus and a Wild Rice Multigrain Strudel. Here is the fb link to the video:http://www.facebook.com/video/video.php?v=572512992493

Alternately, the halibut video is posted on YouTube:

Special Congratulations To:  Spinach Tiger who made the list of 55 Bloggers Published in 55 Knives. 

55 Knives is the brainchild of Nick Evans, of Macheesmo. He has done a remarkable job selecting bloggers and doing all the work.  Only one thing, please order the book here or through Spinach Tiger, because Angela will be able to make a little commission. But, do visit  all 55 blogs, starting with Nick’s. His blog will wow you.
Special Mention: Canadian cuisine is distinctive. From Pemmican to Poutine: A Culinary Journey Through Canada's History from Coast to Coast represents the unique and diverse food culture and history of Canadian cuisine. Through recipes, history, and legendary stories, this book will shine a much-needed spotlight and deliciousness on Canadian cuisine, and brings it to the forefront for food lovers around the world. 
 
Hope you all enjoy this information as much as I enjoyed researching for it. I do this purely out of enjoyment and for no other reason. Anything that enhances our trade is what I like doing best. 
Please let me know how you like the information provided,
Cheers,
Penelope

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Where The Wild Things Are... In a Restaurant and Kitchen

The book tells the story of Max, who one evening plays around his home making mischief in a wolf costume. As punishment, his mother sends him to bed without supper. In his room, a mysterious, wild forest and sea grows out of his imagination, and Max sails to the land of the Wild Things. The Wild Things are fearsome-looking monsters, but Max conquers them by "staring into all their yellow eyes without blinking once", and he is made "the king of all wild things", dancing with the monsters in a "wild rumpus". However, he soon finds himself lonely and homesick and he returns home to his bedroom where he finds his supper waiting for him still hot.

Penelope’s Version: There is always much mischief within the snarly conclave of a restaurant and its kitchen.   Mischief has been known to salt itself away under stoves and refrigerators, to suspiciously conceal newly delivered cartons of supplies, especially when desperately needed. It has been known to terrorize victims from within locked freezers.   As we sail into the kitchen, there are some fearsome-looking monsters.  Some of us are bold and strong enough to stare into their yellow eyes without blinking. Others are not so lucky. The executive chef, “the king of all wild things in the kitchen”, dances with the monsters in a “wild rumpus”.  However, he soon finds himself frustrated, forcing him to banish those who are careless or simply outright stupid. 

Here is an instance where the “king” had to dance with a monster... that was really a scavenger pig, dressed as a cook... 

Max decided to take his mother to a fine upscale restaurant for a very special Mother’s Day brunch.  This was Max’s favorite haunt because the restaurant was designed around a magnificent open kitchen.  The ambiance was tres chic, giving his mother goosebumps.  Everything was perfect. It was a packed house, bursting at the seams with happy diners.  An equally bustling crowd stood shoulder-to-shoulder, waiting in the vestibule, stretching their necks like a flock of cranes for a glimps at a vacating table. 

Exquisite, intoxicating scents funneled out into the dining room as exotic dishes were being deliberately carried low by the impeccably clad servers. As they passed each table, diners would point to each magnificently designed platter, squinching their shoulders in delight.

Mother’s platter of Dum Pukht Chicken Biryani, (a signature dish of moist flavorful chicken, cooked in a rich, spicy concoction of spices, traditionally layered with rice, caramelized onion and dry fruits, and finished with the scent of saffron and rose water) had just been set down lovingly before her. Max’s Spice Scented Lamb with Quince and Mustard Relish swept in and graced the table as if it was being presented to the Duke of Windsor. 

Mother and son exhale, taking an extra moment to beam at the spectacular culinary extravaganza that lay so impeccably before them. With brilliantly polished knives and forks poised - luscious juices oozing down the sides of their entree, crystal glasses sparkling from the reflections off their miniature candelabra - the quintessential moment had arrived. 

A cook leaving the restroom yells out to the “king”, “Hey chef, we're out of toilet paper!”  Suddenly all heads turn in the direction of the loud bellowing voice that transcends throughout the entire restaurant as if a loud speaker was accidently turned on.  

Mother’s succulent chicken takes on an entirely different complexion! Max’s lamb went... “Bbbbbbbbbaaaaaaaaa”. The moment has melted, along with the extra side of butter. All Max can picture is the cook without toilet paper. He pushes his lovely platter away. He has lost his appetite. 

Moral of the story: No matter how much the “king” strives for perfection, there will always be the risk of a combustible moment. Some are beyond anyone's control. Stuff just happens.  

Here are some management essentials for handling an entire restaurant full of customers who have experienced a service trauma. This could be from the type of experience as noted in our story, or even an accidental fire alarm that goes off causing guests to abandon their food. (Doesn’t count if it's a real fire.) 

The trick is to effectively nuke any remnants of a negative experience caused by  such an unfortunate faus pas.  A “What If” Plan, in addition to the internal toolbox  which addresses the one-on-one customer service failures, or what we like to call “Burnt Toast”(Burnt Toast is what happens to an opportunity when failing to please a paying customer.  Please refer to our blog of December 27th, 2009) can be practiced with regularly scheduled drills and awareness training.   

We Suggest To Keep it simple with a two point measuring system:

Major Event ~ meaning the yellow eyed monster disrupts the guests' dining experience. Something beyond management's control cannot be ignored, requiring some of the following remedies: A complimentary or discount certificate (preprinted); drink, appetizer, dessert, meal, or special stay period, if it’s within the hospitality sector. The deed must be acknowledged by the establishment, otherwise the guest will associate the incident with the fact that the interrpution was ignored. Trust me, they will never forget it.  What guests will vividly remember is the noble act of the "king".

Minor Event ~ meaning something on the level of an accidental fire alarm, which may have prevented a meal to be eaten. (Non-life threatening.) If the event was caused by an internal glitch or even a fire drill, then the meals must be replaced as complimentary. If caused by something like a bomb threat, then a discount card is a nice touch, reflecting proper sensitivity towards the guests' inconvenience, even though the fault does not reside with the establishment. This too shall not be forgotten and don’t be surprised if the establishment ends up with some free media publicity. One never knows if a reporter is sitting at one of your tables.  Best practice screams loudest!

~ Identify in advance who will be the designated driver in such a situation and to what degree reconciliation will be implemented.  

~ Training of staff and regular drills on a monthly basis should be mandatory.

When and if it happens, staff will meet immediately in a designated area for instructions. Servers then calmly fan out to their assigned tables, letting guests know the “king” will personally speak with them, acknowledging the happening without an explanation. Explanations are performed only by the “king”.  The “king” meets with his guests, acknowledging the unfortunate happening and administering whatever level of compensation is deemed necessary. These are the proper procedures for a “wild rumpus” committed by a yellow eyed monster or just  the hand of fate. 

If these steps are implemented, everything will run like clockwork and more importantly, the establishment will reflect they are very much in control.

Special Mention:  Recipies provided for the Dum Pukht Chicken Biryani recipe by the brilliant Culinarian named Devaki. Her blog is Weave A Thousand Flavors, and the Spice Scented Lamb with Quince and Mustard Relish was created by the incredibly talented Chef Silvena Rowe.

                       

Chef Silvena Rowe is the newly published author of a blockbusting cookbook entitled, Purple Citrus and Sweet Perfume: Cuisine of the Eastern Mediterranean: Food of the Eastern Mediterranean. It is one of several recipes shared with the Guardian, http://www.guardian.co.uk/lifeandstyle/2010/may/16/mezze-recipes-silvena-rowe 

To enjoy food is to enjoy reading about it as well. It’s an evolving inspiration.  It levitates us and throws light on our creative aura.  I have no doubt that many of our readers will soon become published authors. Ouuu how exciting!  We wish them every success as destiny awaits them right around the corner.

Caption Photo Descriptions:

1.   Purple Citrus and Sweet Perfume Cook Book Cover

2.   Chicken Liver, Potato and Chilli Salad  Purple Citrus and Sweet Perfume

3.   Creamy Feta and Caramelized Leek Filo Borek   Purple Citrus and Sweet Perfume

4.   Chilled Sweet Pea and Watercress Soup with Rose Pedal Cream  Purple Citrus

5.   Sumac Braised Nettles Topped with Onion Seeds  Purple Citrus and Sweet Perfume

6.   Spice Scented Spring Lamb with Quince and Mustard Relish   Purple Citrus and Sweet Perfume

7.   Lavender & Honey Glazed Chicken with Pine Nut, Chervil & Honey Sauce   Purple Citrus

8.   Red Mullet with Pine Nuts, Currents and Gremolata  Purple Citrus and Sweet Perfume

9.   Aubergine stacks with Pomegranate, Mint and Yogurt Sauce  Purple Citrus and Sweet Perfume

10. Orange and Hazelnut Cake with Orange Flower Syrup   Purple Citrus and Sweet Perfume

11. Istanbul Orange and Vanilla Baklava   Purple Citrus and Sweet Perfume

12 * Dun Pukht Chicken Biryani   ~ Devaki Weave A Thousand Flavors

Special Thanks To:   Dave Ayotte, Director of Dinning Services in Providence, Rhode Island, F&B who inspired the story.  And Lester Pyatt, Managing Director & Hospitality, Worcester, UK, for the line about the complexion of the chicken. Lester has an incredibly witty blog (great read-Brit humor at its very best) so subscribe.  I did!

(c) 2010 ptsaldari.posterous.com : PTsaldari Group Inc. | The Art of Serving Well | Serve Me Well Inc. All rights reserved. This article originally appeared on ptsaldari.posterous.com blog authored by PTsaldari.  This article may be shared and reprinted as long as this entire copyright message accompanies it. Email: ptsaldari@gmail.com

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Caught between a rock and a hard place.

We blogger’s bond and become like family.  I treasure your faithfulness and the outpour of emails I receive.  I've responded to each with direct messages. My unexpected hiatus was due to a combination of the stars suddenly merging together all at the same time.  I've returned to my studies, coupled with endless publishing requirement details, and our quest to secure a literary agent has been overwhelming.  

It's all good stuff so there are no complaints.  Unfortunately, there are not enough hours in a day to complete everything.  I have decided to revert to 3 postings per month, until I’m out of the weeds. 

Thank you again for your understanding,

Warmest hugs to everyone!

Penelope 

Ah! The Infamous Restaurant Comment Card!

 

   

“If restaurant comment cards had ears, they’d be deaf”...  Penelope Tsaldari

Do they work?          Usually not. 

Are they meaningless?   Pretty much so.

Do they really, truly, “honest-to-God”, measure performance?   Not really.

My sixth grade dance card received more attention than any restaurant comment card could possibly ever hope for.  Cards may sit silently for weeks on end, waning like a wallflower.  Waiting.  Waiting and yearning only to be read.

We’ve all completed a comment card at one time or another, most always with the best of intentions, hoping the powers that be will read them.  We are secretly hopeful that our written words to managers, hold some sort of magical persuasive powers, earning our devoted server  the bestowing of a garland laurel wreath upon their little head;  as minstrel lutes play, as virgins romp up and down, as rose peddles rain down upon them from the heavenly skies, showering them with management’s adulations.  Or maybe they will be repaid for their evil deeds with a well-warranted set of boxed ears, for doling out lousy service.

Let’s stop right here!  If comment cards held value, wouldn’t management respond to each and every one of them?  They most often capture our email and contact information, right?  We bloggers are a fanatically unforgiving bunch of protocol junkies when it comes to simply implementing good manners.  “I took the time and made the effort to comment.  Now you respond back with the same level of effort.” Comments are the super highway to engagement.  Be it a customer, blogger, or social networking buddy, only fools underscore and impertinently ignore the value of comments.  Even with responses, we follow an unwritten code; that being, the quality of the comment dictates the quality of the response. 

Feedback in any business is the ultimate quintessence of showing how we listen to those we serve.  It distinguishes us.  Be it the receipt of constructive criticism or suggestions, comments are much like a Geiger counter that detects, measures and many times, guides or realigns our direction and performance.  As of today, my take is they are simply a “nicety”; a fictional politeness.  If not responded to, they are bogus.  Anyone involved in sales and marketing will tell you point-blank; the art of providing great service is all in the listening. 

Last Sunday, my friend and fellow blogger, Elijah and I arrived around 3 p.m. - ahead of the dinner crowd.  We were seated outside, where I noted only two other tables being occupied.   It took “Dancing Eyes”, that’s what he called her, along with a spinning dove-tailed “sweetie”.  Dancing Eyes, not being Native American Indian, was bleached blonde, blue eyed, possessing a fetchingly impetuous smile, carrying far more importantly the accentuating perky nipples.  It took her exactly twenty-two minutes (I timed it) to acknowledge our existence and grace our table with her bursting enthusiasm.  As a sidebar notation, I had noticed her dawdling in deep conversation with another server as we entered.  

Nicely, mind you, I immediately requested the table be wiped down, since it was very sticky.  I handed her my set of dirty cutlery, since it had someone else’s food was still stuck to it, along with two cracked water glasses.  She allowed us to give her our drink order, disappeared and returning with a wet towel.  The moment I touched it, I realized it had been dunked in ice water and was sopping wet, (not hot so as to help with the stickness) and was sopping wet (having not been rung out), meaning the table would require time to dry, leaving us only our laps to rest our hands.  Reading my reaction to the wet towel (clever girl), immediately justified herself by saying, “It has sanitation solution on it.”  

Elijah was beginning to make his discomfort for my interaction with Dancing Eyes, known to me.  “Lighten up, Penelope, she’s so sweet.  At least she’s trying.”   Normally, I make a point of being extremely compassionate with servers.  Somehow this one really irked me. We completed our meal.  The check arrived along with a rather large green comment card.  I slid the comment card over to him.  Number 1, being the lowest score and 10 the highest.  He, undeservingly scored her with 8’s and 9’s.  Well above average.  Can you imagine?  Dancing Eyes received an eighteen and-a-half percent tip for the lousy service she provided.  Once she was paid, we never heard back from her even though we lingered on for another 45 minutes, since there was no one else sitting outside.

This reminded me of the old adage:  “Pretty is as pretty does.”  Dancing Eyes, may have had a pretty face, but pretty is as pretty does.  The way she behaved wasn’t pretty at all. 

I think what I resented most about Dancing Eyes was her deliberate use of her “femme fatale” to gain something she didn’t rightfully deserve.  The only thing missing on her T-shirt, were the words, “Hey, I’m stupid, but not as dumb as you.” I consider it a cheap form of female manipulation.  On second thought, wasn’t she being... clever?  Maybe, I should be applauding her instead. 

Here is what I walked away thinking:

  • Comment Cards are not a true indicator of good service performance.   They can be manipulated depending upon interpretation, mood and gender.
  • Do attractive, good-looking servers get better tips and scores?  I think so! (Kind of a stupid question, but I had to ask it anyway.)
  • The whole comment card issue is riddled with ambiguities.
  • Management should make sure customer feedback policies are in place, ensuring the entire staff understands their importance and makes sure the information flows timely, to the top echelons and decision makers.
  • Management needs to identify the person responsible for reading and addressing the necessary action to be taken on cards.

Electronic scoring gadgetry is being introduced and will begin appearing in restaurants for customer feedback.  Could you help us out by completing moi's very own comment card?    

Our Electronic Feedback Request:

1)    If presented with an electronic gadget after completing your meal, would you use it?         

2)    Do you prefer the electronic gadgetry to a card?                          

3)    Do you expect a response back from the management?                         

4)    How many questions would you be prepared to answer?

5)    Are you prepared to release your a) Name, b) Email c) Cell Number d) Everything?

6)    Have you ever received a response from a comment card?

7)    Do you feel your opinion counts?

We sincerely thank you for your help,

Penelope & Gabriella

This Weeks Foodie, Lov’in Blogs:
(c) 2010 ptsaldari.posterous.com : PTsaldari Group Inc. | The Art of Serving Well | Serve Me Well Inc. All rights reserved. This article originally appeared on ptsaldari.posterous.com blog authored by PTsaldari.  This article may be shared and reprinted as long as this entire copyright message accompanies it. Email: ptsaldari@gmail.com

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What’s love got to do with it? …Food that is.

 

       

...is a second hand emotion, like only Tina can belt out!

Love has plenty to do with food. I’ve never met anyone who didn’t love it!  I marvel at how so many of my beloved foodie friends, chefs, cooks, wine connoisseurs, farmers, servers, bartenders, etcetera, etcetera   ...   possess a strong reverence ~ a profound adoring ~ beyond passion, for the food they grow, purchase, prepare and serve.

Here are two of my favorite movies that prove my point!

Mostly Martha (one of my favorite foreign films) is a 2001 German romantic comedy.  It is about a skilled chef in Hamburg, Germany. When her sister dies, she is left taking care of her problematic niece. She then has to face choices about the best solution to solve the problems set forth by her niece.  The film follows the events as they occur, but has occasional interludes where Martha is speaking with her therapist about cooking. It’s a must see. You’re gonna love it!

Eat Drink Man Woman is about a renowned Taipei chef and widower that clings to old recipes for food and wisdom, while his three grown daughters attempt to create lives of their own. 

As the film progresses, each daughter encounters new men. When these new relationships blossom, their roles are broken and the living situation within the family changes. A major theme of the movie is that romantic relationships give life meaning and are necessities of life (such as eating and drinking).

Another theme is the burden of aging. Chef Chu is depicted as having lost his “one true love” (his wife), losing another (his ability to taste), and about to lose all three daughters to marriage. Not to mention the usual spectre of old age.

Extra bonus feature: The film features numerous scenes displaying the technique and artistry of gourmet Chinese cooking. Since the family members have difficulty expressing their love for one another, the intricate preparation of banquet quality dishes for their Sunday dinners serves as a surrogate for the spoken expression of their familiar feelings.

There is depth to these foreign films, never captured in the American versions.

When you love what you do, it isn’t work!

Blog visitor comments that are “loved by us”!

“Food is not love! “Rule of Thumb”: anything that you can buy and have with whipped cream for a couple of dollars more is not love. Did you know the “Rule of Thumb” comes from the size of the stick you were legally allowed to beat your wife with?  No thicker than your thumb was the rule... Ah, the good old days!” 

“Your blog definitely is one of my favorites. One comment you made keeps running through my head.  “Food is Love”. Can I suggest that food is not love. It is the catalyst that we use to express love.  It is a tool we use to put people at ease and welcome them into our fold.”

“Ask a missionary. They always show up with food first. Meals On Wheels is a program that provides so much more than food. There is a human connection that must be present for food to stir emotions within us. As a professional I can spend a lifetime trying to recreate a meal for someone and never hit the mark. I can’t recreate the experience that surrounds that meal.” 

“Can anyone tell me why people look forward to “Fair” food?  Loud, drunk people pushing and shoving, the smell of cow sh#&t, and standing in the mud. Mmmmm. Fried dough with cinnamon sugar never tasted so good. All this is good news for you. How we serve really does matter. It may be the most important part.”  

“If one applies this as a practice, it will become more natural. The opportunity to serve is in itself, its own reward. Once you give of yourself, either of food or service, you have no control over its reception. Being enlightened with this fact gives one the confidence to move forward and size every chance to give what is desired (Spoil).” ~ Chef Matt

“PT~ lovely entry.  Karen is just SO right, isn’t she?  As a society, our “hunger” is generic, we seek easy and accessible forgetting that the journey to lushness is usually a path less taken.

I think about the people I’ll be cooking for whenever I cook.  I shop with consciousness and curiosity.  I consider their likes and their adventurousness.  I imagine a dish that expresses my appreciation for them, whether it be their loyalty, love or sass.  Loyalty usually gets me cooking comfort foods.  Love typically has be whipping up something lush with hard to find ingredients and sass usually calls for spice?  Then, I cook with love in my heart.  I literally imagine them enjoying the dinner so that my love goes into the food.  I think my love is my secret ingredient.  That’s how I spoil the people I love.  ~Tara@whatwechow

Foodie, Lov'in Blogs:

“The ritual of serving food well is our blog ~ Serve Me Well, focus, its center, and its purpose.  Dining is a meaningful part of loving life.  It awakens our senses in making eating, drinking and the art of serving, more of a captivating ceremony that heightens our pleasures.” ~ Penelope & Gabriella

Your comments and emails are always welcome,

Happy Earth Day!  Cheers, Penelope & Gabriella

Special Request:  A dear friend of mine has starting a new business. We’re looking for a great name. Please mosey on over and click this bad boy a visit.  A great name, would be really great!   http://mnbbeck.posterous.com/

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Spoil Me “Have another cream puff, baby.”

 

 

   

Most of us know what we like and what we don’t.  I know what I like to read and most ardently, what I don’t.   There are blogs that I read faithfully and without fail, mostly because they nourish me intellectually.  They feed my eyes and fill me up.  Thoughts and ideas bounce off each word.  That’s when I know I’m into a really good read. Words that have lovingly been kneaded, like a soft, warm dough.  When it feels just right, when it’s warm from all our rolling and punching (ever so tenderly of course), only then do we let it rise - and publish.  Their words, “Spoil Me”,  They make me feel good and I hunger to read more. 

Karen Resta "Postcards from the dinner table" wrote, “Fact is, we live in a Viagra-soaked society where dulled appetites are prodded at by daily food porn and prescribed pharmaceuticals.  There’s a hunger for even a sense of hunger, and a sense of pride when it is found.  “You made me hungry,” they cry with joy.  “Have another cream puff, baby.”

Karen’s background as an Executive Chef in a high profile NYC private fine dining environment, followed by a move into the field of management as VP of Operations of all food services at Goldman Sachs, has built a sturdy platform of knowledge and personal experience which she now brings to writing about food, art, and culture.  Published clips include online food websites and a national newspaper. 

One has to be a really good writer to write this way.  This is no rookie.  Karen’s a heavyweight.  What we all secretly pine for is to be spoiled with a reward (our cream puff)When we venture to spend our coin, we want to enjoy it.  We want to relish and bask in the spectacular delight of it all, and possibly get more than we bargained for.   Can’t get more personal or emotional than that.  Well maybe a little! 

Let’s flip it: Have you spoiled anyone lately?  With possibly an unexpected smile, a squeeze, a hug to those we live and work with, or better still, with guests who are total strangers?  Does it count as a “bonified spoil” by simply giving of our “time”?  That one is really cheeky.  True, the genre of our blog is customer satisfaction and I’m not swaying from my focus, just taking a more scenic route around the bend, making it more of a philosophical symposium. Karen, has me pondering about our dulled appetites and a "hunger for even a sense of hunger".   When you think about it, it’s true.   That’s exactly what drives us;  a “hunger”.  But we all know we’re not really talking about food.  Or are we?   Then, she nail’s it with, “...and a sense of pride when it is found.”  Ah, Pride.  Another reward!

When you spoil someone, they often remark, “I love it when you spoil me.” Maybe we should all consider doing it more often, since it feels soooooooo good.  Is it time to yank ourselves up by the bootstraps and examine our hunger, by examining what we hunger for?  Is it to please someone else’s hunger?  Do we do it so we can feel appreciated?  For acknowledgement, pride, satisfaction, or is it just about the money, or it looks good?  Do we want something in return for it?  

Why am I asking you to do this?  Because this little “mind exercise” may result in personal enlightenment that unselfishly, may also result in providing betterment in our daily lives and work!   It may sound kind of weird, but re-examining our “hunger” and whom we spoil, can be a wonderful journey.  

Who have you spoiled lately and how?  Write me, I’ve put a fresh briki of Greek coffee on, and I’m waiting for my cream puff comments.

Come on! Don’t dawdle, I’m hungry!

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